When and how to seek help
Know the moment, take the first step
What you learn hereRecognize when distress passes what a friend’s support can carry —by its intensity, duration and interference— and take a first step toward professional help.
Help that actually works exists. And still, most who need it never reach it.
A friend's support is real, but it has a ceiling: intensity, how long it lasts, and if it disrupts life.
Don't hunt for the perfect specialist. Start easy: your doctor, a mental-health professional, or a free line.
Try the three flags on a case: weeks down, not sleeping, off work. There, listening is no longer enough.
Where to go is concrete and local: free, confidential lines. Reaching out is the right move.
Three flags and one small first step. You don't have to be in crisis to deserve help.
This lesson is free, today and always. No account and no card.
SourcesKohn et al., 2018 (the treatment gap) · mhGAP (WHO) · Jorm, 2012 · Updated 2026-07-25